Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
im having some serious problems with getting over my ex. we've been broken up for a month now starting today. but i cant stop dribbling over him. at some points im okay and happy and just being friends with him. then the next day im crying and mad and just wanna hate him. idk why thow. i broke up with but clearly i think i shouldnt have. but it needed to be done. [[nothing bad happened. just personal issues were getting in the way.]] i still find myself extremely attatched to him and its just killing me on the inside. im tearing even while im writing this. idk whats wrong with me. hes like turned my emotions completely around..... please, i need some help
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You are very young, and I remember my first love in HS it was devastating when we broke up. I remember everyone told me it was just puppy love and to get over it, but it hurt really bad. I know the pain you are feeling, but this too shall pass. You have your whole life ahead of you and trust me when I say this, you will date again, and meet other guys and have further relationships. Take time for you and yourself, concentrate on school. Surround yourself with family and friends. Keep a journal, and if you feel like you are falling into depression you might want to talk to a school counselor or a trusted adult to get you some help. Take care!
rainBowsLoveMe
i dont think i loved him......who knows. maybe i do/did and i dont even know it. i havent really told anyone bout how i feel cept for my friend dakota and daisy. i know i will date and again and im just trying to get on with my life and over it but its like my emotions wont let me. they keep reminding me of how much i like him and the memories and gd times we shared and still share. they keep wanting to make me think that maybe i shouldnt have broken up with him and theres still a chance but i dont want tht chance. i just want to move on and of course still be best friends with him. idk if its really depression or what, but i will keep and eye on it and thank u very much julie. i appreciate it
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Perhaps write a list of his bad qualities that you can refer to when you are feeling this way.
rainBowsLoveMe
you know, i dont think there were any qualities about him that i didnt like. i liked everything about him really. we broke up cause we had so much personal crap on our plates and it was starting to affect our relationship. i just wonder.....if he still has feelings for me still...i think thats a main part of all this. i think i would be so much better if i knew if he did or didnt. cause right now im just playing the guessing game
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