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My 20 plus marriage is over

zora123
zora123

So when I had a hysterectomy and bladder sling it did something where is not comfortable anymore to have sex.Also I have always had issues with my breast being tender. I do finally have him going to the doctor next week he has canceled many times who knows if he will keep the appointment. He is so uptight and loses his cool constantly. We had a talk 5 days ago and I told him I would try and give him attention but he has not but forth the effort on his side. But now my husband doesn't want to be with me anymore he says he doesn't love me like he did before and he wants to move out. plus he says I am fat he has always emotionally built me down I should say good riddance. I guess I need to go see a lawyer ASAP! What do I think?

Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
Wow, that is so horrible. First, look after yourself. Find out why the bladder sling is giving you so much grief. Then line up a lawyer, therapist and a financial advisor. As for being fat, really. I think he has checked out a while back. It will be a hard road to travel but you can do it. hugs.
Poppyfields
Poppyfields
I can fully relate with painful sex & the feeling of being rejected because of it. My thoughts and love are with you zora123 x
MemphisWH
MemphisWH
Its sad and going to be painful, but it does sound as if he has checked out long time ago.
Focus on yourself and get help.
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