Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Why do people keep playing games when you're trying to get business taken care of so once the divorce finalizes you can both go your separate ways?
I went over to her house tonight for the weekly visit with my grandaughter and as I was leaving, I asked her if she had gotten her vehicle insurance and some other items taken care of as she told me she would.
She just gave me a little sh-t-eating smile and said that she had been busy. What that smile and the way she spoke that told me that she's been spending her free time with her new sugar daddy and the necessary business has been put in the back for now. I'm sure that she's using all her physical charms and talents on this guy and he's buying whatever she wants but she needs to get this stuff taken care of as it's stuff I can't do.
I didn't want to cause a scene with the baby right there but she really pissed me off and deeply saddened me at the same time because she has so easily cast me away and is now shagging this clown for all she's worth. She could have at least had the dignity to hold off until the divorce was at least filed but nope, she started doing him about a week after our reconciliation attempt ended just before thanksgiving.
Why do people love tearing apart the people they once took their vows with? I was always good to her, did what I could for her and this is how she wants to treat me after she's already broken my heart twice? I just don't get it. The mind games and cruelty make no sense..
I went over to her house tonight for the weekly visit with my grandaughter and as I was leaving, I asked her if she had gotten her vehicle insurance and some other items taken care of as she told me she would.
She just gave me a little sh-t-eating smile and said that she had been busy. What that smile and the way she spoke that told me that she's been spending her free time with her new sugar daddy and the necessary business has been put in the back for now. I'm sure that she's using all her physical charms and talents on this guy and he's buying whatever she wants but she needs to get this stuff taken care of as it's stuff I can't do.
I didn't want to cause a scene with the baby right there but she really pissed me off and deeply saddened me at the same time because she has so easily cast me away and is now shagging this clown for all she's worth. She could have at least had the dignity to hold off until the divorce was at least filed but nope, she started doing him about a week after our reconciliation attempt ended just before thanksgiving.
Why do people love tearing apart the people they once took their vows with? I was always good to her, did what I could for her and this is how she wants to treat me after she's already broken my heart twice? I just don't get it. The mind games and cruelty make no sense..
When the marriage is really over, you have to make changes in the way you do things. I know it's hard, but we all had to.