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Rman 05/05/2009

Well, last night she asked me if I was going to book a beach vacation for us and the girls in June. I was like, huh? I asked her if she was kidding and she said no. I didn't say a word, proceeded to make a bowl of chili, then went to bed. I love chili. But what I don't love is having my mind fucked with...excuse the profanity. Damn...I wish I brought some of that chili to work. All I got is a lousy Healthy Choice microwave thingy...

deleted_user 05/05/2009

X tried that with me wanted me to pay for 1/2 the trip.

deleted_user 05/05/2009

((((((((((((((((((((((((((RMAN)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

deleted_user 05/05/2009

Huh? doesn't cover it WTF is more like it.

deleted_user 05/05/2009

I feel your pain, Rman.......hate those microwavable lunches. Anyway, is she really serious? Tell her to suck it up and book her own vacation. I can't believe the nerve of some people's children!

hugs to ya!

deleted_user 05/05/2009

You mean you don't want to play house anymore? Sorry for the shit you are dealing with. I think she wants to have her chili and eat it tooo. I know, but I wanted to stay with the chili. Big hugs

deleted_user 05/05/2009

I went on a trip with the family a month ago, knowing that we were headed for divorce, and it actually didn't go too horribly. I was expecting a train wreck. BUT, that was a family thing for Easter plus I was committed to running in a marathon relay the day before, so I couldn't really back out on my team.

That said, I would NEVER book a vacation for the family right now or any time in the near future. Let me re-phrase that...I would not book a vacation with HER involved. Me and the girls? Absolutely.

deleted_user 05/05/2009

Sounds like a crapy situation. I hate mind games and the people who like to play them.

All I have is a sandwich and yogurt for lunch.

deleted_user 05/05/2009

Dude I hate to tell you this but it is just starting. The law says I have to pay for this, this and this. Not that, that and that. That is what CS is for.

MsBlank1 05/05/2009

The song "mind games" by John Lennon is playing in my head right now.
As MSDE always says "you can't change stupid"
Book some fun for you and your girls as you deserve it(thumg your nose to HER as you drive out of town)

deleted_user 05/05/2009

Sorry Rman, I can't stand mind games. It's a bunch of crap. I can't people that like to play manipulative mind games. Sorry for that.

Oh and very sorry about the healthy choice frozen thingy, those things are horrible.
I shouldn't say that my office we ordered in Mexican food today for Cinco De Mayo! Yummy!!

deleted_user 05/05/2009

I went on vacation while separated.

Every three days she was like a volcano, and erupted.

Later she asked why I didn't try to reconcile during vacation. I said she was as unstable as Charles Manson, and wasn't going to attempt it.

deleted_user 05/05/2009

Remember the "vacation" Tom Hanks took in Castaway? Perhaps you could book a trip like that for her!

deleted_user 05/05/2009

Tell her you already booked for YOU and the girls. She's on her own. What's a Microwave?

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