Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My and my stbx chat often - about the kids, work, the weather, miscellaneous stuff. I don't do anything for him but I do answer when he calls. Well today we are talking and he starts talking about this new woman that started working with them and that is looks like she is interested cause she is always saying things to him. Before we started dating we were best friends and we used to talk about his girls and my guys but our friendship/relationship is not the same now. Really??? How stupid can you be??!!!!! Like I want to hear it!!!!!!! I kept it together but it really hurt me to hear it. I told him "Cool - good for you". Then he said "It's not cool - should not been talking to you about this" Really? WTH?!!! I know he is going to move on, rebuilt his life but did he really thought I wanted to hear about it? Again how stupid can he be??!!!!!
I just needed to rant and vent!!!
I just needed to rant and vent!!!
I would just cover the business at hand and then get off the phone. Tons of ''excuses'' baking, cooking, helping with homework, few minutes to yourself and there is mag article you want to read, cleaning, etc. So really stick only to business and no more chatting about anything else.
Protect yourself.