Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
After my ex cheated on me in November and we broke up, she came up to me yesterday and started telling me that she missed me and she cannot get over me. She has been texting me today after not speaking for almost a month and a half now. She wanted to meet me tomorrow and talk about us and the possibility of getting back together. I am very hesistant about doing this because she betrayed my trust and betrayed me. She has been trying to get back into my life but she is still with the guy that she cheated on me with. I am not sure how to approach this meeting tomorrow. I still love her but everything that comes out of her mouth, I assume it is a lie. I love her and everything but I feel she needs to change for me if she wants me back. I am writing this post to ask for help on how to take this situation tomorrow. Any ideas?
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I so exhausted from pain in my back that started Sunday but was mild and almost gone till I took bath that night and think I twisted or did something to take it to excruciating...I am away for work in a different state so traveled Monday and worked today then called my boss to fyi her about fact I am falling apart and walking like elderly person! I did telemed and they called in prednisone and...
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Can't wait to burn my pumpkin spice candle! National Coffee Day is coming up on the 29th so I hope to score up on a free coffee.
If you can’t be emotionally intact then do not see her.
If you must do this you have the right to have validation. Full acces to her phone , email, computer.
If she’s got nothing to hide then...show it all the time. Trust is earned on absolutely everything she does. No questions asked. If she wants you she will do it.
If she won’t then you have your answer. Are you guys still legally married. ? Do you own the house together. ?
I will tell you a story. A friend of mine his father went thru this. She left the house and didn’t have a leg to stand on with her actions. She came back to make it work , moved in...the whole nine. They sold house moved into the smaller one. Affairs in order. Two weeks later she served him divorce papers infront of the kids. Took her money and abandoned the family. Tread carefully. Things are different now that this happened to her. Keep your witts. Love should not be a switch. Think what do you have that she doesn’t, that she may want. Sorry to be bold but once a cheater........
Don't meet her. It will only teach her that you'll put up with her cheating ways. If you take her back, she'll just string you along until she meets someone else (and cheats again, to test the other guy out first before breaking up).
It is much too soon to be thinking about going back to her. Please focus on getting back to that confident person you were before she messed with your head.