I know exactly how you feel.... how can they just move on with someone else so soon and leave us with all the pain..... I never did anything to deserve it if anything i did too much for him.... all i can say is at least we are free from them... ppl who could do that to ppl they say the "love" hurts like hell to know they aren't suffering like we are.... but in the end they don't deserve our love if this is what they do with it....

if she says that she loves you and spends her time with a different man that means that she is psycho and what she says has to be ignored.

you have to push that woman away and find a normal one. this one is not worth your time.

She may just be telling you what she thinks you want to hear because you are pressuring her too much. If she is going around with another guy why are you pursuing her? You may be coming off as somewhat weak.

or she could be telling him that to hold on to him till she found someone to replace him.... as what happened to me... one week he loved me and wanted to be with me and the next week he had someone else moved in....

This person is unavailable. Time to cut bait.

He does the same to me ... going many steps further
I finally had to ask him if he wanted me to tag along in his life as a backup plan ?
that sure got him wild !
Cut lose, you deserve to be loved completely !