Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am a kind person who feels self worth at pleasing others and helping. This is my downfall. He has many needs and is charming and sexy.
He has physcially hurt my son so I kicked him out. He has been negative in our relationship and not worked for years and drained all my funds. We are seeing counselling to see if we can work this out whereby he lives seperate. He begs me to stay with him. I just found out that he is a cyber slut and I suspect he has been seeing women on the side. I printed his cell phone bill and there are a lot of calls to the other woman.
Why the HELL am I having so much trouble confronting him on this and ending it for good? He is coming over tonite and I am so absolutely hurt and have copies of facebook flirting from before and after our seperation. I'm just frozen in fear. I so want it not to be true, but it is. Can't stop crying.
Angela
He has physcially hurt my son so I kicked him out. He has been negative in our relationship and not worked for years and drained all my funds. We are seeing counselling to see if we can work this out whereby he lives seperate. He begs me to stay with him. I just found out that he is a cyber slut and I suspect he has been seeing women on the side. I printed his cell phone bill and there are a lot of calls to the other woman.
Why the HELL am I having so much trouble confronting him on this and ending it for good? He is coming over tonite and I am so absolutely hurt and have copies of facebook flirting from before and after our seperation. I'm just frozen in fear. I so want it not to be true, but it is. Can't stop crying.
Angela
Why do you want him back if he has been cheating ?
We all struggle with this want for what we had, or what we think we had or what he wish we had ...
I agree with SongIN go with NC, take some time to be by yourself and reflect on what is is your really want ...
Show your son that he is loved and protected against anyone who tries to hurt him. Show your son that you love him more.
You do, don't you?
What they said!
Your son is the most important thing. This JERK felt he had the right to hurt something that is most precious - your child - and felt he could be forgiven? Wow, he needs to be gone. Not only for that act, but what affect it has on your child in the long run. If you stayed it shows, this is what is allowed to happen to him. I'm a grown version of your son, it takes a lot of work to reverse that damage. Due in part, i cut my mother out of my life because she allowed this to happen to me. You have it in your power to fix this.
On top of that, he has no respect for you. You're better off. Focus on what difference your making for you and your son's future rather than focusing on what you're losing. Good luck to you.