so, here I go...... me and my wife have been married for almost two years now and together for almost four. Along the way things haven't been perfect but no real issues until recently. I discovered on a recent trip of hers an infidelity had been committed. I was willing to let it go but she had to break contact with this individual. This caused her to be very upset with her new situation of not having contact with him.
This has caused me stress, anxiety and not to trust her. fast forward several weeks and she states she wants a divorce. I am heart broken by this but I continue on with my life as best I can while still living together.I had gotten the rings back and decided the best course of action was to move along while this plays out. Finally tonight I asked to remove the photos of us off the wall, she got angry and said to not do it yet because of our children. I am upset with seeing what was versus what is reality. The conversation progressed a bit and I asked why not just get this done with(she hadn't filed or done any of the paperwork) (highly uncharacteristic of her) She became angry and stated that we should stick with our plan. I was simply asking her but it became a full out slugfest from her over the phone. I was very blunt with her that I needed this to move on and get on with my life. I also stated I would be buying a house and didnt want her to be able to mess with that ( this infuriated her further). I am honestly just trying to move on with my life as this daily pain I suffer is so high.