Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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amethyst223 09/25/2016

15vyrarsv of life together. 10 years of marriage to find its all a life. Endless affairs, pseudo relationships with others, promises to them for life after we divorce, lies to be the victim ... you name it, he did it. Now trying to salvage my own self I find my abger out of control. I am miserable, hurt, distrustful, honestly defeated. I have in and agree to December to see this big change he was making. M that he would focus on us and make me a priory and her I lay in bed alone crying because he simply doesn't get social cues. Learning to live someone but not like then or be in a life with them is hard. I held my vows dear, I never brie then. I find out it was 1 day...just over 30 how's of marriage and he cheated. My entire life win him is a lie. Hope do I pic up and move on knowing it's likely in be alone? My head hurts, my heart is broken ... I Haber nothing Leftv to lose.

mirandac 09/25/2016

I hope you are in therapy for all that,
Sounds confusing and crazymaking.

I am very sorry for all your hurt and
pain it sounds terrible. HUGS

MendingAgain 09/26/2016

I 2nd what Mirandac says, get yourself in therapy. Hugs.

zuzuspetals 09/26/2016

Hi amethyst223, So sorry to hear of your heartbreak and loneliness. You're asking good questions. A professional counselor can surely help you get these answers. I have found that, during trouble much like yours and feeling alone, that I have been able to rely on the promise from Christ, that "I will never leave you nor forsake you". Through my faith I've been able to count on this time after time. You are not alone. All is not in vane. I'm sure that you'll be used, and will be able to use your own experience, and your own pain and anger to help someone else in the same circumstance. Between now and finding a good counselor, here is a great resource for you. Look through the list on this sight and find a match for your current situation. I'll pray that you emerge on the other side of this better, stronger and connected to the one who made you! Every topic you click on will have a list of related sites to choose from. Some include contacts in your area.

https://list.ly/Troubled_With/lists

amethyst223 09/26/2016

I've been in therapy for 5 months. She does help but it doesn't stop my brain from running. Sorry for all the typos. I was on my phone and spell check changes things at timbres.

mirandac 09/26/2016

I am very glad you are in therapy, vent away
Many of us have been there. Its not a good
place to be. Join a divorce care group to Help
you grieve your losses and deal with Divorce
if thats where you are headed.

Toxic relationships generally do not improve
or get Better. I said my vows too so did many
of Us. I meant them for a lifetime, he did for
Awhile. HUGS

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