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Well, I moved out this weekend. Living on my own for the first time EVER!!!! I am 45 and have always lived with someone. This will take some adjusting.
I talked to my STBX last night to let him know how things went and what I had taken with me (not that he cared). Prior to the move - - I had repeatedly asked about the microwave (whether I could take it or not). He never quite answered me. So during the move, my daughter and I discussed it and remembered that the microwave was a Christmas present from my husband to me about 2 or 3 years ago. (He always gave me kitchen appliances etc. for Christmas - never something just for me - always something the whole family would use). Anyway, so I took the micowave. Last year our Dryer broke - so Valentines day he bought me "front load" washer and dryer set (special order "RED") - he paid $1700.00 for the pair. I was not happy - 1st he paid $600 more to have them in "RED". 2nd - that $600 could have bought me a dishwasher that I have been begging for, for 4 years. So now the punch line - he informed me last night that he was not only is getting a new microwave and dishwasher but he was getting a new stove too. Then he laughed. I'm glad he thinks it's funny - cuz I'll be the one laughing when the judge gets done with him. Child support - Alimony - half of all the marital property. Joke will be on him. HA HA HA !!!!!!
I talked to my STBX last night to let him know how things went and what I had taken with me (not that he cared). Prior to the move - - I had repeatedly asked about the microwave (whether I could take it or not). He never quite answered me. So during the move, my daughter and I discussed it and remembered that the microwave was a Christmas present from my husband to me about 2 or 3 years ago. (He always gave me kitchen appliances etc. for Christmas - never something just for me - always something the whole family would use). Anyway, so I took the micowave. Last year our Dryer broke - so Valentines day he bought me "front load" washer and dryer set (special order "RED") - he paid $1700.00 for the pair. I was not happy - 1st he paid $600 more to have them in "RED". 2nd - that $600 could have bought me a dishwasher that I have been begging for, for 4 years. So now the punch line - he informed me last night that he was not only is getting a new microwave and dishwasher but he was getting a new stove too. Then he laughed. I'm glad he thinks it's funny - cuz I'll be the one laughing when the judge gets done with him. Child support - Alimony - half of all the marital property. Joke will be on him. HA HA HA !!!!!!
deleted_user
Have fun getting out in the world on your own!!!
sandysan5743
Ouch, I'm sorry he laughed at you. Have fun out there!!!!
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