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My wife has now emailed me three times today while she was at work. These aren't important emails about finances or anything like that. These are about mudane details in life that I don't need to know about.
No, I don't give a damn that you spend $900 working on the house weekend. I couldn't give a damn if you are going to be in someone's wedding party in two weeks. I couldn't give a shit that you are going to be in someone else's wedding party next year.
The long and short of it is I don't want to be friends. She left me and I don't give a rat's behind what she is up to because it doesn't effect me. I wasn't the one who broke their vowels and separated the marriage.
Why in the heck can't she leave me alone? I told her that I would be friendly towards her but not friends. I told her that talking with her could only cause me pain and it was all or nothing. WHy is this so hard for to get?
No, I don't give a damn that you spend $900 working on the house weekend. I couldn't give a damn if you are going to be in someone's wedding party in two weeks. I couldn't give a shit that you are going to be in someone else's wedding party next year.
The long and short of it is I don't want to be friends. She left me and I don't give a rat's behind what she is up to because it doesn't effect me. I wasn't the one who broke their vowels and separated the marriage.
Why in the heck can't she leave me alone? I told her that I would be friendly towards her but not friends. I told her that talking with her could only cause me pain and it was all or nothing. WHy is this so hard for to get?
In another situation, he called when I was with the guy I am dating. He wanted to get one of the last things of his that was left at the house. I had gone out of town with the new guy, and when I said I was out of town, I think he caught on that I might not have gone alone. In that case he got all mad and basically accused me of abandoning the pets for 3 days, even though I had the neighbors pet sitting for them, like he and I should always do. I arranged for them to let him into the house and make sure he just took that one thing. He interrogated them the whole time about who I had travelled with. They know I am seeing someone, but they are on my side, so they said they didn't know, just that I had asked them to pet sit while I was away.
I definitely think he is bothered that I am dating, but what did he expect, that I would stay locked up in the house crying over him forever? Like you and Hazi, he was the one that left, this was supposedly what he wanted, so it is really annoying that he tries to butt into my life when he has no right. I can't wait for him to come get the last few things that are left here and to finish the car transfer so I can ignore his calls and e-mails.
We will see where it goes from here.
I know the feeling...uhuh
Big hug
S