Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Wow - tears are filling my eyes even as I try to write this...
Today is my last day in MY HOUSE. I take the keys for my new apartment tomorrow. I was all ready for the move, and yet on my way to work today, it hit me. This is the end - the very end of my life with HIM and there is no turning back.
I know I don't want him back, I know it would never get any better (in fact, he has become a hell of a lot more stupid recently) BUT it is the end of everything I knew.
When I walk out that door tomorrow, nothing will be the same for me - my comfort zone will be completely gone. I am entering a world of unknowns, and I am looking for a few words of encouragement. Can anyone help?
Today is my last day in MY HOUSE. I take the keys for my new apartment tomorrow. I was all ready for the move, and yet on my way to work today, it hit me. This is the end - the very end of my life with HIM and there is no turning back.
I know I don't want him back, I know it would never get any better (in fact, he has become a hell of a lot more stupid recently) BUT it is the end of everything I knew.
When I walk out that door tomorrow, nothing will be the same for me - my comfort zone will be completely gone. I am entering a world of unknowns, and I am looking for a few words of encouragement. Can anyone help?
A week ago I packed up everything of significant value that I own, put it in a station wagon and drove 1100 miles to my new "home," which is really just a temporary arrangement; the future is still a big question mark.
I can't quite describe why I'm happy.
The future is so full of doubt, but also so full of hope - so many possibilities. I'm finding out there are a lot of good people in the world. A lot of beautiful places.
Stay strong. I'll be thinking good thoughts for you.
i know that feeling, last monday i walked out of my house, into an unknown place, an apartment, i had never rented, i felt sad, miserable. don't look at it as an ending, look at it as a new beggining of new life. you sound firm and sure with your decision of not wanting him back. so, go forward, make that apartment your "HOME" not just an apartment. and cry if you have to, it's okay. nothing wrong with that. prayers.