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I believe in Karma, but not in Fate.
The hard thing with Karma, though, is that you rarely see it come back to the other people who have wronged you, but sooner or late it does. Not because of some mystical force in the universe, but BECAUSE they are the type to wrong other people, sooner or later they will get themselves into trouble, because that is their nature.
Anyway, my 25 cents adjusted for inflation.
Karma is a bitch. Big big time
Fate? It wouldn't surprise me that we are on all pre-destined paths and our decisions then decide how f'd up or not it becomes.
Is not what happens to us - is how we chose to react to it - so I don't think is either karma nor fate - but life. No one is exempt from suffering. We should appreciate both - the good days and the bad ones, that's what builds character and endurance - the hard times.
http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/science/2013/09/free_will_debate_what_does_free_will_mean_and_how_did_it_evolve.single.html
I do not belive that people are meant to be together or that there is a soul mate out there for each of us, after the romance cools or the lust subsides the chemisrty of a realtionship will still be there if both partners understand that things run hot and cold, that thier partner is not perfect, that they each need to work on the relatoship, that both are all in by that i mean not 50% / 50% but 100% / 100%
In this world people don't necessarily get what they deserve, being nice to others won't garuntee any of us a better life here, God does not have a plan for us, God has a call for us to do the right thing(s), hopefully you hear and respond to the call and your will cross paths and entwine with someone else that is like minded
I'll have to check it out! I love anything science, and especially anything related to physics!!
Many scientists come to the conclusion life is deterministic because all the underlying systems are. I think they're caught in the bubble of their scientific discipline. Can't see the forest through the trees.
charliegirl29,
Free will cannot violate the underlying rules of nature. :-)
I can't jump off the ground and soar through the air above my neighborhood. I can make decisions about how I will live my life. I'm not fated to be either rich or poor, sinner or saint, free or imprisoned, alone or surrounded by a host of friends.
And because I love Rush!!
'Freewill'
There are those who think that life has nothing left to chance
A host of holy horrors to direct our aimless dance
A planet of play things
We dance on the strings
Of powers we cannot perceive
'The stars aren't aligned
Or the gods are malign...'
Blame is better to give than receive
[Chorus:]
You can choose a ready guide in some celestial voice
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice
You can choose from phantom fears and kindness that can kill
I will choose a path that's clear
I will choose freewill
There are those who think
That they were dealt a losing hand
The cards were stacked against them
They weren't born in Lotusland
All preordained
A prisoner in chains
A victim of venomous fate
Kicked in the face
You can't pray for a place
In heaven's unearthly estate
[Chorus]
Each of us
A cell of awareness
Imperfect and incomplete
Genetic blends
With uncertain ends
On a fortune hunt that's far too fleet
Einstein called quantum entanglement 'Spooky action at a distance'. He also dismissed quantum mechanics in general, stating 'God does not play dice with the universe'. He thought it all sounded too supernatural and nonsensical.
There's also a theory out there called "Orch OR". It's a theory of quantum consciousness. Most scientists dismiss it, however most 'scientists' dismissed Copernicus and Galileo too...
Fate: Jeremiah 29:11 (For I know the plans I have for you says the Lord).
Karma: Galatians 6:7-8 ( We reap what we sow).
I believe there are forces, good and bad, that influence our every action and consequences for those actions.
And I believe in being led in certain directions by those forces. I think sometimes we call them coincidences, intuition, or our gut feeling. Fate, yup....Karma, yup......I believe in both.