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So I tried one more time to fix my marriage. I guess you can say I was naive to believe that our "love" that we once had could be worked on. That the promises that we both made could be fixed. But he had it perfectly clear that he doesnt want nor love me and basically he is now a single man and he has no loyailty to me at all. He said that the throwing of objects and yelling in general is normal and that I shouldnt be afraid of him. He couldnt accept the fact that his anger was a issue for me and that is why the intimacy went out of our marriage. Again he blamed me for everything and said he "loved" me as his friend. I told him that all contact would be through my lawyer and that I never wanted to speak to him again. Of course he tried to say that we should handle it without as much lawyer involvement because it would be more more for me. He made excuses for everything and in the end I ended up hating him. Maybe someday I wont and can forgive him, but not anytime soon.
For the throwing of the stuff.
I heard lets do it ourselves and save money. Mine
said he would be fair. He Fought me all the way to
the courthouse.
I live a 50-50 state and i get some alimony, i had
My Lawyer watch my back from him, HUGS
You sound angry, which is understandable. However, harboring hatred and resentment usually limits healing. Coming to a place of forgiveness is critical for regaining joy and happiness. This is often a long process, but worth striving for! Have you considered individual therapy or support groups like Divorce Care?