No, what do you think?

No...but i was just wondering why? I am thinking that i am the bad one in the relationship and that is my fault

You are the bad one if you are contributing bad things to the relationship and you was? Having cats isn't a bad thing, putting alcohol before your partner is. If you left your boyfriend then you was wise to, if he left you then he has done you a favor, either way you win, either way he loses, just as it should be.

He told me I burned our Relationship bec When he went to go drinking I didnt ask him where he was...bec I was just tired of that...and irs my fault bec I chose my cats over our relationship...and that he gave up his parents to live with me and i cant even give away pets for him...

He is selfish, all addicts are, you are not the reason why he drinks, he lies to you by saying so (and you know it yes?), give him a miss he's a waste of time and space. You deserve better and in time you will be rewarded with better. Brainwash yourself into thinking you deserve better and sure enough it will come to pass, we generally get in life what we sincerely "think" we deserve.

Trust me your cats will love you way more. He is a very selfish person

Thank you. Yes I told him the cats was with me where was he? Soo he told me its my fault bec i didnt care...I felt soooo bad thinking yes, I am in the wrong...and maybe i made a mistake

He's trying to blame you. If it was not the cats it would be something else. And please...the cat thing is just ridonkulous!!!

Yes...I think so too...bec in the beginning he wanted me to move in with him so i told him we are only together for a month plus i have my cats...so a week later he said he will move in with me and he will have to learn to live with them..

That makes no since, he is playing games and wasting your time. Remove yourself from his life, if he cares he will change. That's the only way.

I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. I've said or made declarations myself while abusing alcohol. Most of it was totally unreliable. Before I married, me and my fiance went to spiritual counseling from our local pastor. It provided a forum to discuss important issues that needed to be discussed with a third party prior to marriage. Another suggestion is to have a talk when your fiance is sober about the pros and cons of your relationship, and what each is willing to compromise for a lasting marriage. I hope this helps.

I hate to say it but, he is an idiot. Blaming something else or someone is what alcoholics\addicts do.
If it wasn't the cats, it would have been something else. No relationship can function properly when drugs/alcohol are in the mix. Believe me, I know, I was once a drug user and an alcoholic.

I dont really know if he is a addicts but he likes it to much...it happend twice that he lift up my tshirt in front of his friend..and allowed me to dance in my underwear infront of them

that makes no sense at all,he isn't ready to stop yet....
giving up your cat still won't let or make him stop,if he really wanted to stop drinking and need help because you asked,it won't and shouldn't come with an expence......he isn't serious with you but he is with his drinking

Having you dance in your underwear in front of his friends was disrespectful. The prime word in the English dictionary is respect, if you don't apply it to self and others then unhappiness is guaranteed, and remember, respect always starts with you. Good or bad, when we speak of another in any way then we are guilty of projecting "ourselves" on to them, in other words if I say you are a bitch it's really because I am, it's my opinion it is owned by me, for me to call you a bitch must mean I know personally what it is to be one because I am, it's not about you at all, do you understand? If you are going to project, always make sure it is in a positive way because you will please both yourself and your target. Good luck with it.