Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I ususally don't spill my guts....but I feel lower than whale shit tonight..
.I miss not wearing my wedding band...I felt safe with it
.I miss the noise of a house full of kids and all their friends coming over.
.I miss my kids...I hate dropping them of on Sunday....I f'ing hate Sundays
.I miss the intimacy emotional, spiritual and physical.
.I miss my sense of purpose...the spinny thing on my compass is broken.
.I miss my home...I felt safe,secure....
.I miss the kids jumping into bed with us in the morning.
.I miss my anonymity..I have FB to communicate with the kids...but old friends find me and I'm so ashamed to tell them I'm divorced....it always comes out.
I'm on a journey, and I don't miss the man that I was...I look forward to the man I will be....but sometimes you just wish for a moment that you could wake up and all this be just a terrible dream
.I miss not wearing my wedding band...I felt safe with it
.I miss the noise of a house full of kids and all their friends coming over.
.I miss my kids...I hate dropping them of on Sunday....I f'ing hate Sundays
.I miss the intimacy emotional, spiritual and physical.
.I miss my sense of purpose...the spinny thing on my compass is broken.
.I miss my home...I felt safe,secure....
.I miss the kids jumping into bed with us in the morning.
.I miss my anonymity..I have FB to communicate with the kids...but old friends find me and I'm so ashamed to tell them I'm divorced....it always comes out.
I'm on a journey, and I don't miss the man that I was...I look forward to the man I will be....but sometimes you just wish for a moment that you could wake up and all this be just a terrible dream
I miss the little things too. Making dinners together. His kids. Him coming through the door after being away on a trip.
But the biggest thing I miss, are my shattered dreams for the future that we had planned to do together.
We had started a blog for our sailing trip and it is too painful to look at it now.
There is not much to say. You feel how you feel and need to work your way through those feelings.
Hang in there- even whale shit eventually changes into something else! :)
I miss call her my wife.......I never know what to say when i'm speaking teachers,coaches, etc. I'm filled with guilty and grief over my loss.
hang in there and stay strong, bro
((HUGS))
Hope that helps somewhat. Divorce isn't a death sentance or the end of the world. You will find your place in your childrens life. You have a D so it is important that you make time for her. She will look to you on how to be treated by a man. (((HUGS)))