Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Rman 04/12/2009

Getting through the process of getting over someone, is rough. I kind of rips up your insides...glad I've found this place and taken the first steps to not caring.

deleted_user 04/12/2009

if you are waiting til the time comes you dont care, you'll be like me a veteran..that day still hasnt come for me BUT because of ds i have moved forward

right beside ya rm

deleted_user 04/12/2009

How I wish it were a one-step fAST process from total commitment to indifference.
The shittier he gets, the faster aI disengage, but i am being triggered emotionally by fear of husband's new associates and their doings, so what I don't expend in grieving the relationship I lose in pure unadulterated FEAR of the next horrendous attack on my assets and sanity....

deleted_user 04/12/2009

Someone put a gun to my head and MAKE ME PROOF READ BEFORE I POST... Geez, sorry for my gibberish...

TheNext31yrs 04/12/2009

If you were EVER going to get to the point of 'not caring' you wouldn't need DS and you wouldn't be here. You'll care, mister! lol
We all will and we wouldn't be able to live with ourselves any other way.

Rman 04/12/2009

Just suck it up and realize that it won't get better. It will get worse, then better...maybe...

lycesq 04/12/2009

Defintely a rollercoaster, Rman, but we'll get through it.

Lynne

TheNext31yrs 04/12/2009

Awwww ! No it WILL get better. But you WILL still care just not in a 'slash your wrists' kinda way.

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