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I've decided I can never fully heal and move forward as long as I live in the same town as him and #4. So, I quit my job awhile back and i'm going to interviews and planning to move where ever.
He asked me today if I was really moving. WTH? I told him yes, of course.
What he doesnt know is that as soon as I land where ever I land, I will be changing all my phone numbers and making them unlisted. Will also change my email address and still keep him blocked on everything. Not telling him when or where. Just gonna slip out of town.
I need to do this. I should have already done this. I'm encouraged about moving and starting over and putting him completely out of my life. I try not to think of the day I actually do all this. It's gonna hurt. It's gonna hurt really really bad. That's why I try not to think about it right now. The thought of never seeing him again. Never talking to him again. It hurts like hell. Just the thought of it.But it needs to be done and will be done.
He asked me today if I was really moving. WTH? I told him yes, of course.
What he doesnt know is that as soon as I land where ever I land, I will be changing all my phone numbers and making them unlisted. Will also change my email address and still keep him blocked on everything. Not telling him when or where. Just gonna slip out of town.
I need to do this. I should have already done this. I'm encouraged about moving and starting over and putting him completely out of my life. I try not to think of the day I actually do all this. It's gonna hurt. It's gonna hurt really really bad. That's why I try not to think about it right now. The thought of never seeing him again. Never talking to him again. It hurts like hell. Just the thought of it.But it needs to be done and will be done.
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I so exhausted from pain in my back that started Sunday but was mild and almost gone till I took bath that night and think I twisted or did something to take it to excruciating...I am away for work in a different state so traveled Monday and worked today then called my boss to fyi her about fact I am falling apart and walking like elderly person! I did telemed and they called in prednisone and...
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Can't wait to burn my pumpkin spice candle! National Coffee Day is coming up on the 29th so I hope to score up on a free coffee.
While this might hurt it will go a long way to letting you make that better life for yourself.
good luck in your new chapter and keep us posted. would love to see where "WE" end up, lol
He's asked where I am going. I told him either San Antonio where my sis is or Atlanta where my brothers are. Those 2 places are actually at the BOTTOM of my list. The friends from here that I will keep in touch with will not give him any info, I know. I'm taking my maiden name back
For the first time in 26 years, he is not going to know where I am. How hard he will look IF he looks, I dont know. My friends are not going to give him the time of day. I'm going to use my sister's address as my forwarding address.
Maybe I can finally focus on myself and get him out of my head.
Congratulations for acting on it.
I wish you the very best and yes please, keep us posted.
(((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))
You will manage this, no matter how hard it may be at times, and what a difference it will make to your life. Good for you!!
I say good for you! Do what you have to do and what makes you happy in order to move forward.