Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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namaste02 10/13/2011

It's a new day everyone.....

View it with "Kind-sight"

Instead of looking at your past with regrets and beating yourself up, stop asking yourself "what was I thinking" and begin asking yourself "what was I learning"

Let go of the pain, even if its just for a split second,and put the focus back on you.

What can you do today to be kind to yourself AND others??

deleted_user 10/13/2011

i am going to have a great day if it kills me :} i go back to school this morning - after fall break - but it is my sisters birthday so we will go to eat with her later. and my mom is coming in to town to stay with me for a few days so it should be great.

H2oFanatic 10/13/2011

I agree. Had a small setback this A.M. when I saw a picture of my ex. Was trying to confront my fears but found out it might be a little early for that. Putting the focus back on myself and going to push through this pain. I deserve to be happy and only I can get myself there. Thanks for the reminder. Deep breaths..

lovingmyselfirst 10/13/2011

:) TXS

playerapr 10/13/2011

Great thought for the day!!! Remind us to stay on track!! :)
Thanks!!

oOoREBoOo 10/13/2011

Good way to look at life....thanks.

The best way to be kind to others, today, is for me to stay away from the OTHERS! :)

namaste02 10/13/2011

haha Reb....sometimes thats just what we need...to be in the company of no one other than ourselves. :)

deleted_user 10/13/2011

Reb,
that's hilarious, and I think I'm right there with ya.

As soon as I finish working with a couple dozen other people all day long, that's what I'm gonna do.

Well, after I go to the club and workout after work, when it's the most crowded.

Ah, hell, looks like I'm stuck with people. Got any suggestions?

oOoREBoOo 10/13/2011

Yes, JOy, put that "look" on your face. (the look, similar to the "I have a headache" look) Ppl will keep their distance.

Nama, this is true. I hope I can keep this with me and view it with KIND SIGHT. It really get's tiring going over all of the regrets.

Hugs to all!

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