Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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happywannab 06/12/2008

Divorced a year and a half ago after 18 years and two kids. Got married for the children. He satyed because I took care of him too. Would never have left because he had it made. I payed, worked, did everything ,he had it made. Never even had a checking account when I asked him to leave @ 43 years old. Felt very used!(also developed a drinking problem, I'm sure because he felt as trapped as I did). Then smart me, trusts and falls in love (totally) with a man I dated in high school. Sure he was a gift from God!! This was finally MY TRUE LOVE. Planned a future, helped him pick out, build and furnish his new home (I was sure we would share!). Found out last week end he had been seeing his ex the whole year we were together, ouch!! He said it was because he didn't want a real relationship (48 never married) but he knew I did so he lied to keep me and kept the "other girl"( who knew all about me by the way, to keep us from moving too far forward! I give up! It is hard to continue to feel worthy. I gave both of these men the "best" I have to give! Don't think I will ever want to again, but I HATE ALONE!!

deleted_user 06/12/2008

First I am just like you...I never can pick the good men..Your very pretty and you will find someone again..This is a pain twice..It has happended to me...Im a bit on the heavy side but blonde hair blue eyes, pretty smile great heart and would give the shirt off my back...We are the same..We will love again and this time it will be for real..I believe it I promise it and Im sorry for your pain...I hate alone too...Im here for you

Wilo 06/12/2008

I am very sorry this happened to you. You did not deserve it. Of course no one deserves that sort of game playing. I feel for you and you have my hug. But don't give up on the future.

Wilo 06/12/2008

I know not much can comfort you but this song sort of talks about the next time. Maybe it will help point light in that direction for you.

I would have given you all of my heart
but there's someone who's torn it apart
and she's taking almost all that I've got
but if you want, I'll try to love again
baby I'll try to love again but I know

The first cut is the deepest, baby I know
The first cut is the deepest
'cause when it comes to being lucky she's cursed
when it comes to lovin' me she's worst
but when it comes to being loved she's first
that's how I know

The first cut is the deepest, baby I know
The first cut is the deepest

I still want you by my side
just to help me dry the tears that I've cried
cause I'm sure gonna give you a try
and if you want, I'll try to love again
but baby, I'll try to love again, but I know

The first cut is the deepest, baby I know
The first cut is the deepest

'Cause when it comes to being lucky she's cursed
when it comes to lovin' me she's worst
but when it comes to being loved she's first
that's how I know

The first cut is the deepest, baby I know
The first cut is the deepest

deleted_user 06/12/2008

Give yourself some time and then try a different way of meeting people...like e-harmony or a dating service.
Do it different for like me doing it on my own I dont choose well.......

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