lots of people with health problems are deserted by their weak partners. if that was your situation, replace her by adding some new good people as friends.

Thank you Verne386. In sickness and health my butt. I guess i should thank her for staying with me for 3 years. But still hurts alot emotionally. She left me just when i needed her most. This MS is a real monster and it ruined my life in many ways.

I am so very sorry, that she turned out to be a fair weather companion.
I would hope most people would not act that way. That does not help you, though.
Aren't they finding things that help MS? I really hope so, It's tough and hard to deal with, although it has been 30 years since I have known a couple of people who had it.
I really wish you well, and sorry you had to find out what she was made of so soon.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))

I don't know all the details, but I am sure it was a hard decision for her to stay or go. or at least I would hope it was.

but none is harder then you having to still be living it.

stay strong and welcome to the group

I know the feeling of sick and alone. seems many folks cannot handle 'high maintenance' partners.

Thank you for your kind words Gem. I will try my best not to be down emotionally and stay positive. I'm sorry for bitching but i feel tricked and betrayed from my one and only life partner.

eventually, every princess has to grow up. she will have to eventually too.

but, that's her problem. think about ways to add some friends.

Thank you Chitownbear I will try my best to stay strong i just feel betrayed by someone i trusted most. I will get over it as time passes. Thanks for the welcome.

Thanx dumpee. I get the feeling u went through similar circumstance. Be healthy and strong

Thanx Verne386. The only way to get back at her is for me to become healthy.

Hi peng: A woman I know that hasn't shown up for the art class in a long while--it turns out her husband (of when she was back in college) divorced her (she's in her 50's now). She has MS and has been getting injections for several years. She's in an electric scooter and she had to give up her drivers license.

Sadly, she has been pushing people away from her when she needs them most.

Please, despite everything don't you push people away from you. Hugs.

Not everyone understand the toll of how daily pain affects you.

Not everyone knows or understands how to be caregivers for what I need.

Two lessons I've learned.