My wife has told me she wants to separate. We haven't touched each other in the time since she told me that. She has changed her hair color and cut, she has bought so many outfits and shoes, the other day she was wearing matching panties and bra, and the kicker....Saturday she tells me she has an appointment and I need to watch the kids. I asked what her appointment was and she said she was getting a brazilian wax. I was instantly like WTF! I said "You're cheating on me, you're seeing someone else" she denied it and told me "I'm not cheating, I'm not cheating". I told her I think she's saying she's not cheating because she thinks saying she wants to separate gives her the freedom to do whatever. I left to run some errands and she texted me that she would cancel because its not worth having me upset with her, but I told her that I wasn't mad and she shouldn't cancel on my behalf. When I returned she told me it was just for her, because since she went on new birth control her period has been so bad and her hairdresser suggested a brazillian. How does this make sense? She denies that there is anyone else involved. Would she ever just admit it? Am I right about my suspicions? What do you think with the info I've shared? I'm not saying it changes anything, but I hate to be played for a fool. Maybe I'm just reading too much into things. I'd appreciate any and all perspectives, especially from women.
To clarify in case you are wondering , I once said I often feel like a horn toad (with sex on the brain since not getting any) thus the TOAD reference. Another game I thought might be fun...To begin a phrase or sentence with just first letters and see what others come up with to try to figure it out. Could be a hoot!For instance.. I might say... I would love to be... B O W T G W B P...