My wife has told me she wants to separate. We haven't touched each other in the time since she told me that. She has changed her hair color and cut, she has bought so many outfits and shoes, the other day she was wearing matching panties and bra, and the kicker....Saturday she tells me she has an appointment and I need to watch the kids. I asked what her appointment was and she said she was getting a brazilian wax. I was instantly like WTF! I said "You're cheating on me, you're seeing someone else" she denied it and told me "I'm not cheating, I'm not cheating". I told her I think she's saying she's not cheating because she thinks saying she wants to separate gives her the freedom to do whatever. I left to run some errands and she texted me that she would cancel because its not worth having me upset with her, but I told her that I wasn't mad and she shouldn't cancel on my behalf. When I returned she told me it was just for her, because since she went on new birth control her period has been so bad and her hairdresser suggested a brazillian. How does this make sense? She denies that there is anyone else involved. Would she ever just admit it? Am I right about my suspicions? What do you think with the info I've shared? I'm not saying it changes anything, but I hate to be played for a fool. Maybe I'm just reading too much into things. I'd appreciate any and all perspectives, especially from women.
Three weeks before my girlfriend and I’s anniversary, I bought two plane tickets for a Ukraine ski trip. We both love outdoor activities and thus, skiing will be a perfect bonding time. It was supposed to be an anniversary surprise. Nonetheless, it was me who was surprised. I was heading to their house when I saw my best friend’s car parked at first street before my girlfriend’s house. I...
I’ve been trying to take more pride in myself (encouraging pride, not snobbish pride) but it feels very empty when I cheer myself on. Will the real feelings come eventually? Any advice?