Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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BrooklynnMB 02/24/2014

I woke up this morning in a complete panic. I don't know what is wrong with me. My ex and I are working on things and he said he can see it long term but I'm still feeling so awful that I broke up with him in the first place. It was a mistake. So in a complete panic I called him 9 times. 9 times!!!! What is wrong with me? I am turning into a complete crazy person. Calling him 9 times isn't going to help us get back together it is only going to push him away. The last thing I want to do. I really hope I didn't ruin any chances we have of getting back together by calling him so much this morning.

BrooklynnMB 02/24/2014

I'm feeling like all the progress we were making is destroyed now because I was just a psycho this morning. Why did I have to go and do that?

ChiTownBear 02/24/2014

I don't think there is anything wrong with you reaching out and trying to resolve the mistake you made in breaking up with him. Especially since things appear to be on a good track. I think its big of you to acknowledge the mistake you made and work towards making sure he knows just how you do actually feel about him. It takes a strong person to do that. But, 9 times?! Yeh, that is a bit much. Not sure it would scare him away, I mean, if it was me I would be flattered and thankful that things could be worked out, but yeh, 9 times. Try to cut back to at least 3.

You have to take a step back for yourself mainly so not to drive yourself nutz with all this. I hope you can find the piece you need so you can know it will work out as it should.

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