get so screwed over? I had way too much time to think over the last week. I came up with something, I am left pondering and wish to share and get opinions on. When I say "we" it includes anyone that feels as I do and chooses to be included.
We go on this website and give strong, excellent clear advise to one and all. We can all see so clearly what someone else should do or say or not do or not say. I mean it when I say the advise is good and comes from the heart in most cases, you can tell! We are sure we are correct in our responses and the way we view the problems and the solutions. We want to help! In a lot of cases we see our way as the obvious, right way to feel or handle something. We may not understand why others don't see what we see!
Here is the question: If we all know so much and are so right, and see things so clearly why or how did we get ourselves in our own situations? Do we not pratice what we preach? Could we be hypocrites? Are we not as smart as we think we are? Could we all be a bunch of controlling nut jobs? Did we ALL just pick sorry people (but how, we are so smart?!?)?
Healthy debate is good, I think we all could use to see some different ways of looking at things or approaching things, who here can say their way is perfect?? Hello, we are all on DS because "our ways" didn't work, right? We all need to change something, don't you agree? We could all stand to learn or adjust something? I for one welcome people trying to teach this old dog a new trick, just don't be offended if I don't see it your way. After all, your track record is no better than mine!! Your opinions are all welcome! Even if you are not a member of "we"!