Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
that it is very unlikely that, after two failed marriages, and the emotional and financial havoc they have wrought, that I would ever contemplate marrying again.
How do others feel about it?
Does that philosophy narrow the pool of available women for a relationship even further?
How do others feel about it?
Does that philosophy narrow the pool of available women for a relationship even further?
I'm sure everyone rememebers what it was like when they first got to this site; the pain, the confusion, the lonliness.
Some of us are still very much going through that on a day-to-day basis. Others are dealing with other issues at the moment that take precidence over emotions, such as finances, custody issues and visitation.
No, no one in their right mind would go back out and rush into another situation where you could open yourself up and be vulnerable enough to love and be loved again. The idea for some people is revolting, scary and too dang risky. Because you're in the result of it not working.
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Someday, not tomorrow, next week or next month...someday it will hit you. Someday you'll be living life the best you can...and someone will catch your eye.
When you least expect it.
Your rhythm will change. Your pace will stop. You'll find yourself catching your breath...
...it'll happen, but only if you're not looking for it.
Focus on you in the meantime.