Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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charliegirl29 10/10/2013

I am finally leaving. After feeling dead inside for two insane years.....i think I'm finally leaving .....i threw the dress i got married in in the trash. My suitcase is almost packed.....i think the time is finally here.

deleted_user 10/10/2013

I hope you find strength in your decision.

BlueKnight69 10/10/2013

I am sorry it came to that but if you are happy with your decision, good. I know from what you've posted that you gave it as much as you could.

Good luck and I wish you peace and happiness.

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deleted_user 10/10/2013

I too wish you all the best, and the strength to do what you know is right for you.

charliegirl29 10/10/2013

Im doing whay is right for my child first and foremost. I am also doing what is best for me.

charliegirl29 10/10/2013

Ty for your support.

ChiTownBear 10/10/2013

stay strong and do what you need to for you and your kid.

gem111 10/10/2013

I almost missed this---Oh charlie, I wish you the very best of luck.
Please take extra special care of you. Once you get settled, please let us know how you are doing. It has to be a good move for you. I don't think things could get worse for you so they have to be headed up!!!!

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deleted_user 10/10/2013

I'm so sorry this happened. Leave as safely as possible and get out of there with your child. You and your child are the priorities. Take care and many, many hugs. We're thinking of you. Post when you can.

charliegirl29 10/11/2013

You know I think it really is so much better when you rip the bandaid off :-) and expose the truth so you can finally make a decision that isnt clouded by what is mistaken to be love. Dont get me wrong....i did love my husband despite his flaws because this life is extremely hard oon a lot of people but at some point you have to stop living in fear and just let go and let something higher give you your answers.

ChiTownBear 10/11/2013

amen....

stillbitterjaded 10/11/2013

Be strong. You can be confident in your decision.

charliegirl29 10/11/2013

Ty all. You should not worry :-)...if it were my last marriage i would say to be worried but i think that but i think my current husband has a lot more restraint than the prior ....I'm just a hot mess of a person who needs to work on herself for a while.

charliegirl29 10/11/2013

Do you think its possible to ever stop being broken or is it just you take the broken pieces and build new things from them?

ChiTownBear 10/11/2013

my thoughts are it depends on how you build from those broken pieces. if you take your time, put each piece in place safely, securely and with patient, creating tat foundation / base to be sturdy, those broken pieces will build something that will look like what should have been in there in the first place.

ChiTownBear 10/11/2013

patient = patience...

I do not use spell check when not working or on the weekends. :)

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