Sometimes, I feel so stupid. I am still letting him control me and we've been separated since March. The divorce still hasn't gone anywhere and my moods go up and down constantly. He is continually working on making me week. Today, he has planned for us to go out. Actually, he just wants me to meet him at a motel! ??!?!?!? And he has been bugging me constantly about this. He knows that I don't want to but he uses guilt tactics and constant baggering until i just say "ok, whatever" Well, then he takes that and runs with it. He just sent me a text and has reserved a room!!! Earlier today, he was upset because I was out looking for an apartment. He wants me to keep waiting so that he can "hopefully" change my mind. Well, I've been living with my parents since march with my 2 kids and we have to move forward. I have to get into my own place, my own routine, etc to be healthy for me and my kids. So earlier he can be mad about that and then tell me where to meet him???? I really feel like I am going to lose my mind in this whole process! My attorney is taking his time on EVERYTHING, my STBX is making me nuts, and my mom cares but wants me to take the steps forward. Any advice would be genuinely appreciated.
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