Omg. I'm so sorry. Hang in there. Maybe she needs sometime to gather her thoughts. I know how you feel. It's devastating but hang in there. I'm sure the answers will come to you.

that just terrible. surround yourself with support and feel free to reach out here often

Im devistated..I feel so betrayed..I did everything for this women

has it been in fact confirmed that she has abandoned your relationship or could she be in need of assistance?

This is so unfair to the child! You have the right to see your baby.
Hugs

Just an fyi. That is kidnapping. She can't take your child from you regardless that she is the mother or not

i trust you are a stand up guy, that said, many cities law enforcement will issue an amber alert whether missing or taking the child

I'm so sorry, my fiance of 13 years walked out on me and my children I understand your confusion and your pain

She is a coward. I had the same thing happen to me. It took me awhile but I'm finally over it. Take it day by day. Also try not to blame yourself. It took me a couple of years but I finally realized it was her issue why she left.

Thank you for your replies..I contacted the local police n was told as long is is in the same state there is nothing i can do..If u mean spoiled her by paying all the bills n keeping food on the table then yes..I cant grasp how she could b so heartless after 10 years.

Im sorry to hear that man. Ive beennlearning ghat my wife belueves that our marriage for the past 4 years has been more bad than good. I dont see it but thats what she says. Women are for sure birds pf a different feather. It may be that she feels she wasnt getting the emotional support she needs. Still not right what she is doing. That is pretty heartless. Really sorry man.

Do you have contact with her family? Can they provide clarity?

Well this is awful...what is selfish is her taking your daughter. You need to file papers for your rights as a father thats not ok.

Any update? Did you file paperwork with court ?

Grb3963, you are a little skimpy on the details there, buddy. Being a social worker for the better part of my life, this is sending up red flags for me. Women flee in such a manner to escape facing their husbands because:
-they fear physical harm
-his behavior is difficult to predict
-they don't want the child caught in the middle of a nasty arguement
-the fear the man can't control his words actions
-they are hopeless their situation will change with words
-they are simply done with whatever is going on in the home
I could go on and on.

You assertion of paying all the bills and keeping food on the table is the bare minimum that a provider should do for his family. There is a wide gulf between that and being a good husband. You are saying you felt betrayed and like you did everything for 'this woman'. Those aren't very tender words. Normally guys are saying how they love her and miss her and can't wait to see their daughter's smiling face and how they would give anything to know what they did wrong.