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I miss him.

AClaire80
AClaire80

I don't get it. He has been such an ass to me these last couple of weeks. After 2 weeks of hardly speaking to one another, we have a huge blow out, the night before he left for a week long hunting trip. I busied myself with projects over the weekend, & even got sick....again. Now, my projects are done, the kids are all in bed, & I've done all my stuff for the night, & the next day. I started thinking about him, & missing him, & now I'm sitting here just crying. UGH!!! I hope I'm able to move on eventually. 

Pronatural123
Pronatural123
It will get better. Day by day. Pray and keep ur self busy
serenityspeaks
serenityspeaks
I feel the same! Some days I am great others feel like I may lose my mind. I get sick of emotions.
AClaire80
AClaire80
There are times I wish I was a guy. They make it look so easy to not give a shit. I'm not saying all of them are like that. But mine just sleeps, & watches TV like he usually does, & just doesn't seem to be feeling anything. Well, except for anger.
mirandac
mirandac
My ex could have cared less what i thought or felt,

It was all about him and what he thought and felt
So i guess we had one big stalemate going on and
Nothing changes if nothing changes.

We use to have these circular arguements near
The end, they were once a month. They went no
where, he could not see my side and i could not
See his side. I wish i could have taped one to hear
Afterward. They were really crazymaking. HUGS
samantha717
samantha717
You don't miss HIM per se; you miss the way he made you feel. If you look at it that way, it's much easier to understand. Like you said, he didn't treat you well, so why would you ... why would anyone really ... miss someone who treated them badly? At times though, he probably provided you with companionship, sex, friendship and made you feel good and happy. Those are the things you miss ... the feelings he gave you. Now think about this - you can get those feelings elsewhere. How and where are up to you. Maybe you need to widen your social circle, volunteer somewhere, take classes or start working out. Think about what feelings you had with him that you don't have anymore and go from there.
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