Were calling it BOB now?? Lol, well my BOB is purple so should he be called 'bobby'?

Funny story as my stbx was packing up his clothes he must have uncovered one of the other 'BOB's'. He handed it to me and asked me 'What should I do with this'. I was silent one moment and as he was walking out of the room....I whipped it at him, beaned him in the back with it and told him to shove it up his ass!! He picked it up and took it....lol! WTF.....maybe he will.

I didn't throw it hard....but I wanted too!

Jamie Dornan did turn in a fantastic performance in "The Heart is a Lonely Hunter", teh 7th episode of the first season of Once Upon A Time. So I'm willing to extend him the benefit of the doubt as far playing Christian Grey.

Though I would still have preferred them casting Matt Bomer. ;)

Debra - you could call yours Barney, since it's purple. Lol

@bff...."I love you, you love me....were a happy family with a great big kiss and a hug from me to you, won't you say you...love...me...too!"

Nope....nope just can't do it. Bobby it is;)

Debra, OMG!!!! I almost spit out my coffee! Are you serious? He actually TOOK it? Ha ha ha! I cant stop laughing. That's hilarious

Ya Barneys just huge, and purple and ....wait maybe Barney does fit. LOL. But who could get it on with Barney? Then how would poor Bobby feel?

Blondie Yeah....he actually took it:) After I got to thinking about it I did kinda wonder why it was in his drawer. But nahhhh, you don't think???He certainly has been full of surprises lately.

Well, if he does ever shove the damned thing up his ass, I hope it somehow gets stuck and he's got to present himself to the ER staff with a pretty pearl colored dildo up his ass.

lmao...too funny Deb

Ha ha Deb!!!!!!!!!! And ewwwwwwwwwwwwww. You don't wanna share Big Blue when its been in the brown. LOL

lol.....no one like that deserves barneys love now matter what it penetrates. lol

It's all good. I really didn't like that one anyway. I'll stick with Barney/Bobby.

Charliegirl, AMEN! LOL! Deb, glad he got the decoy and not the treasure. ;)

It's been 4 years for me and I have not miss it at all. When I found out about everything that went down in the marriage, something "snapped" in me. I have had lots of opportunities to have sex, but for the first time the head on my shoulders is calling the shots. Here's what I miss;
Rolling over and having someone to touch
Buying flowers...something about tulips.
My sense of purpose has gone.
Making Sunday breakfast.
Sitting on a plane,excited and knowing she was waiting up for me to get home.
And lastly, I guess I miss the fact I am know longer in her heart....that she does not care about me at all....

Somehow TML67.....that ended up reminding me of a hallmark card....... ....i think for me its more of missing connecting mentally with someone the rest just seems to follow this

TML, HUGS. I have weeks where I feel like that. But four years is long. Wow. Im glad your thinking with the right head. We should have a pot where we all pitch in for toys for everyone, even the boys. XXXXXXXXXX