Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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miranda88
miranda88

I been on a rollercoaster of emotions the last couple of days... tomorrow it will be a week after my husband took all of his belongings out of our house 

mirandac
mirandac
It is the grieving and it will take you awhile to work
thru all your feelings and emotions. Rejection is Huge.

At the beginning it is the worst it does Eventually Does
start to get better after the divorce is final. Then its the
transition stage and the roller coaster will still run.

There is divorce care that helps a lot with the grief and
divorce process. Some go to therapy to help themselves
too. It all takes time so be patient and kind to yourself. HUGS
miranda88
miranda88
Tnx a lot it's been really hard almost 11 years together and a beautiful 6 yr/old daughter very hard because I don't just have to handle mines it's also her feelings emotions and stability
Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
Hugs, It is a lot for you to handle now. Especially when you have a young daughter. You have to make her understand that she had nothing to do with this. Kids have a habit of blaming themselves. Both, you and your daughter should see a therapist. Find a lawyer and a financial advisor. Whatever you do, do not sign anything without your lawyer seeing it first. Be gentle with yourself because as Mirandac said there will be an emotional roller coaster ride of a lifetime. There is a light at the end of that tunnel. Just grab a couple of lounge chairs, find a nice shady place and watch the train wreck of his own making. Hugs for you and your daughter.
mirandac
mirandac
Go limited no contact, text or email Only. Write
only about the business at hand, the financials,
Bills, the house, child care and concerns, do not
Talk personal at all.

Personal talk will go no where good or healthy
for you. Most wont be accountable or will blame
Shift.

Many on here co parent, just try to keep that as
The end goal as hard as it is, HUGS
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