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I’m losing everything

Underland
Underland

My husband cheated on me while he was away at BLC. He went on effing Tinder and found someone. Before BLC he was deployed... I haven't even had a full month with my husband and he is already leaving me for another woman! This divorce is taking everything away from me and I can't cope with it! I lost the house I spent so much time trying to find. I'm losing my husband who I thought I was spending my life with. I'm losing my dog who I love. I can't cope. I can't finish school. I'm feeling hopeless and I can't deal with this life anymore.

MemphisWH
MemphisWH
it truly sucks, and hurts so much to deal with.

Know you are not alone. All of us are dealing with issues, and need each other to lean on.

Continue to tell your story your success on the other side will help others see that there is hope and relief in the future.
Sadme80
Sadme80
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with so much pain and stress. I know the feeling of hopelessness. It steals away your will to live. But you can endure this. There are people who care about you. There are resources when you feel like there are no answers to your problems. I have begun therapy myself and it's been a lifesaver. It can be really hard just to summon the energy to take care of yourself, but you can do it! I highly recommend finding people to talk to. Even a stranger on a hotline can help. It helped me.
Masterno
Masterno
One moment at a time. Focus on the breathing. I know it feels everything is spiraling out of control. I'm right there with you.

This says more about him than you. It's all about him. It's better to find out now than say 10 years down the road.

As someone that has been used like you have, it is their loss. Someone will cherish us and value us.

The pain gets better. Day by day. Believe in yourself.