Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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justducky 03/29/2017

Hello. I am just at the beginning of a divorce and I could really use someone to talk to. Man or woman, I'd like to get some perspective from both. If you happen to be around, please send me a message. Thanks

Guil207 03/29/2017

Hi, been through divorce, now single from long time girlfriend. We can find something to chat about I'm sure.

Lyne 03/29/2017

Me too.

onlyamemory 03/29/2017

I've been divorced twice and now recently out of a 3 year relationship.

Guil207 03/30/2017

How are you today?

justducky 03/30/2017

I'm good. Buried myself in work. That helps as a distraction

Guil207 03/30/2017

Yes, it's a great distraction. A counselor gave me a few ways to deal with anxiety that may just come out of nowhere. Focus on where you are, everything around you like sounds, smells etc. Try to focus on every detail as in say, that board has 16 nails, that cupboard has 3 hinges. That smells like ink from a pen, etc. What this distracts your brain, takes you away from feelings and give you a chance to calm down.

PortlandMommyof2 04/04/2017

I am also at the beginning. It's really rough emotionally but I am doing my best to keep myself busy. I've been a stay at home mom for 12 years and I literally have to start over just to get on my feet. I have so much fear and anxiety of not being able to make it but I know I have the drive to be successful. My only option is to be successful. It's just the emotional stuff that is bringing me down.

Bluejade8 04/04/2017

I'm at the beginning as well, I'm devastated and scared and angry

StrengthGrace17 04/04/2017

I'm at the beginning as well. Just filed yesterday. The reality of this whole situation is crushing. Glad to have a small group of people in a similar place.

Danceintherain 04/30/2017

I've been separated for almost a year and will be heading into the divorce process too at some point. I'm moving forward but some days I just sit on the couch. I'm trying to stay positive but sometimes I just burst out crying. It will be nice to have a group to chat with. Anyone dealing with a 20 plus marriage ending out of the blue?

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