That's a very permanent solution to a temporary problem. I felt like you did last summer but i kept going because of my girls. This will affect the boys for the rest of their lives. Please call and talk to someone. You can call me if you want but i suggest a counselor.

Hey mindy
What's gloin on ,your not done your down!!! And you will get up again. your pain will end ,BUT YOU'RE BOYS PAIN WILL ONLY START AND THEY WON'T HAVE THEIR MOM FOREVER!!! C'mon you are strong hold on and things will settle x. please post or message me im here.let it out vent cry rant rave whatever!! Remember suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem cmon stay with us !xxx big strong HUGS.

I am going to say this and I am sorry if it does not come off as comforting as some would expect. Do NOT do this to your boys. As a child of a parent that attempted suicide that has followed me my entire life. If you love your children you will not do this to them. You're the adult and your job is to take care of them. Not the other way around. I have been and still am taking care of my mom because she was not strong enough. Do not do this to your kids. Eventually you will get through the pain of losing your marriage but the kids will never get over losing their mom!!!

What the others here said is true. Your children need you. now and in the future. I know how painful divorce is, but it does get better, it just takes a long time.

I say this with the best of care. Feeling sorry for someone in this state never accomplishes anything. Sometimes people need to hear things that they do not want to hear.

The thing is, you'd be screwing over your boys and abandoning them, when they didn't even ask to be born. Wh7? Because of emotional pain? Is this the adult approach? Is this what you would have wanted from others on whom you relied?

Also, my guess is that you don't really want to do this, for the simple fact that you posted this.

I've lost many friends because of suicide, and the thing I remember most was how I never had a chance to talk to them about it, because there were no signs. They just did it.

You look like a very, very young person who has little in the way of life experience. It reminds me of my suicide attempt when I was 9 years old. Looking back, had I succeeded, I can make up two lists. One list is a bunch of horrible, terrible things that I could have avoided.

The other is a list of all of the great things that I would have missed. You'll miss your kids growing up. You'll miss their hugs and adoration. You'll miss it when they start to grow up and become men. You'll miss it when they go off into the world to give it a go. You'll miss every single opportunity to talk with them and guide them into a better life than the one you had.

I guarantee you that if you do NOT do this, that you will miss lots of bad things, and you will miss lots of good things. I guarantee that you will feel pain again, probably similar to the pain you feel now. I guarantee it.

This is the life of an adult. The life of an adult who brings children into the world has an even higher responsibility to be an adult, be grown up, not cry about pain and make rash decisions, and instead understand your responsibilities and take them on in this grand, one-time adventure called life.

If you were suffering end-stage renal failure, were in great physical pain, and wanted to call it quits, then I'd understand. But for this? Nope.

Do the adult thing. Find a therapist. Find a friend. Find a support system. Find the strength to stand up and be a pillar of strength and resource for the children you chose to bring into this world.

Best of luck.

I know you are going through a rough time, believe me. We all are. Your two children are the most important here, so please get yourself some help. I can see that you are logged in online as well and we are here to talk to you, so please take advantage of it. Everything will be ok.

HEY!!!! DON'T DO THIS. I TOTALLY GET IT!!! DON'T LEAVE US ALONE. DON'T KILL YOUR BOYS SPIRITS. MY MOM DIED TOO I KNOW THAT PAIN. DON'T DO THAT TO THEM..DON'T LET THIS PAIN BREAK YOU....WE ALL NEED YOU AROUND...

Hopefully this is not happening, I hope you can find someone to talk to you and guide you through your pain.....the way you are feeling now, your boys are going to feel 10 time worse, I am sure. And then the pattern is just going to repeat itself in the future with your boys. Don't take your life because only one person would not stay with you.......the boys need you more than ever.

I'm not saying that I know that I am right, but I kind of feel like this is a fake account and that none of this is really going on.

If she wanted to end her life and get away with it while being totally serious about it, I highly doubt she would put it online for people to stop her.

Please don't do anything to yourself!!!! This is a horrible time for you, WE know how you feel, we know the HELL you're going through. Please get some help right now, talk to someone you trust. Your boys will not be better off, they need you, they need their mommy. Please hang in there. Come here and post as much as you need to, just get through the next min, hour, day, little baby steps. Just breathe and refocus your thoughts. I promise you, time is on your side. I made it through, many of us have..............

Please, do not do this. Suicide causes trauma and a stigma that stays with family, especially children, the rest of their lives. Life is precious and yes, there are hard times we have to deal with. I had 2 classmates commit suicide. I have done funerals for those who have committed suicide and it is tragic. The youngest was a 12 yr. old boy and the oldest was an 80 yr. old man. The families still talk about these. The loss of her son, still causes the mother a sadness she must deal with the rest of her life. I am here, I am a Pastor. If I can be of help, please contact me. I have been her for almost 8 yrs. Don't let my username intimidate you. I was once a biker and there are few things I haven't seen or been around in my lifetime. You will not shock me nor embarass me in any way., I am here to help if I can.

I am here. I'm listening. Message me.

Dont do it! I just tried ro commit suicide 3 months ago and almost died. Now my kidneys are all messed up. My husband left me for a younger woman and they stole all of my personal journals, then used all my weakness' against me. They made me feel like i was a nothing. I believed them. Please believe you are special and unique and loved very much. Just keep reaching out and keep busy. Message me and i will give you my cell #. Please do not kill yourself. You will find someone that is good, caring and loyal. I did and I am 58 years old, but look 68 lol.. I was with him for 19 years and was in total shock when he left. Give yourself a chance. You deserve love and happiness again. Take care. Your new friend, Lisa Price

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