Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Tomorrow would be my 25 anniversary. I'm terrified my final papers will be in the mail. To frost this pretty little cake my water in my house runs off a well. The well line must have broken and I'm having a terrible getting and keeping water! Now let's add the cherry on top. Stbx called. First he was all like I still love u. I want to come home(after he's been living with another woman since February) ya right. And won't give even the lawyer a mAiling address. He went no contAct for 5 weeks when he left! I can't handle hearing his voice. I don't break down on the phone. But I definitely loose it when I hang up. I don't have caller I.d. and my parents are quite elderly. I get lousy cell Sig in the woods here and so I have to answer my phone. I'm just a broken mess right now. And I wish I could believe one word he says that's actually nice. But he will never change. I just want to stop hurting. I want to feel happy again. I want to find who I am and not what everyone expects me to be. I know this is a long post, but I'm so broken right now. Please God help me.
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Journey is pretty intense. I cried for
The first four months after my ex left.
There is hope once you get to the other
side, the Healing begins. Its still pretty
bad though at least There is some closure.
You sound like you know what you want
It still a rollercoaster ride. Up and down
every day. I am a year no contact and i
Still struggle.
We made it a month shy of our 30th glad
We didnt , jerk. When there is a third party
Involved the feelings and emotions are all
Across the board.
Are you going to therapy or support groups?
Hugs
Mirandac
Wow, you sound just like me.
This is such an opportunity for you to do just that!
I posted an article on dylanmurphys thread yesterday about divine storms, and how they're clearing way for the new. Thats what's happening to you I believe.
Tell cheating husband to tend to his girlfriend because you're moving on.
The well thing is just normal life stuff that happens, and you'll realize you can handle it.
You can discover so many wonderful things about yourself!
It gets crazy at times, but I'm learning to grow in different ways and know myself better.
This will pass. And if you choose to believe anything he says, just know you're sabotaging yourself and settling for less than you deserve.
Won't give the lawyer a mailing address? Because maybe he can avoid the consequences of his actions that way? Maybe you'll realize how much you need him and put up with his nonsense?
In my humble opinion you have put up with way too much for far too long for him to even think his disrespect of you is tolerable or fixable.
Yes it is sad and it hurts and it really really sucks, but you deserve so much better than this POS and better is coming when you heal!!!
Grieve, cry, and then get up again and kick butt.
You can do this .