Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
this weekend I'm out with friends at an anime convention after a horrible break up and everyone was a bit happy my ex couldnt make it because we all know he would start drama. I was feeling good the first two days, beating people up at foam fighting tournaments, hanging out with friends I never get to see because of work and school. I even got to see a long time friend i never thought i'd see again. But last night as we went to the rave, (I have a fear of people so this was a huge step for me) i kept seeing my ex's face in the crowd. I knew it was just the flashing lights messing with me but none the less it still shocked me and my mind jumped to wanting to hug him and say hello. I had to leave everyone early to go to bed and cry a little. I feel bad because it was supposed to be my weekend to just say "fuck it" and party but that one thing, thinking he was there, messed me up and now he wont get out of my head.
It's so funny how our minds work. But I'm trying to be positive & to enjoy the rest of my trip. Keep busy, find me hobbies or things to keep you occupied when you get home so your thought have Lee's time to dwell on him.
I've started doing overtime at work, I started yoga, I'm now seeing a therapist & on thinking about taking up pottery. Find things that would give you happin3ss. Do all the things you wouldn't do because you were with him....sending hugs your way