Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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So we broke up June 2013. Was severely depresses and had to seek therapy and meds to get me through every day.
Yesterday I stalked him on Facebook to finally see a pic of him and his new woman. I knew he had been dating since March but never knew anything about it.
Have to say that my heart was racing and I was wondering all about her, but then I realized that it wasn't breaking my heart. I was actually happy for him and wishing him the best.
I would have never imagined i would feel this way .
It made me realize that time really is the key. I think we have had enough time apart that I really do wish him the best. He is a super nice guy and gave me 3 great years. It was an experience.
I can look at it from an outside perspective. I loved him like no other but God put him in my life and took him from me for a reason and that reason is over.
I'm scared what the future holds because i.have yet to find someone I relate to like I did him, but I have faith then when I am meant to meet my true love it will happen.
Bottomline is that even though your breakup is heartwrenching, it will get better. Who knows how long but you feel get over it or atleast accept it. I never thought I would because he was suppose to be my husbands, ut time helas. Just remember. Hugs to all that are suffering
Yesterday I stalked him on Facebook to finally see a pic of him and his new woman. I knew he had been dating since March but never knew anything about it.
Have to say that my heart was racing and I was wondering all about her, but then I realized that it wasn't breaking my heart. I was actually happy for him and wishing him the best.
I would have never imagined i would feel this way .
It made me realize that time really is the key. I think we have had enough time apart that I really do wish him the best. He is a super nice guy and gave me 3 great years. It was an experience.
I can look at it from an outside perspective. I loved him like no other but God put him in my life and took him from me for a reason and that reason is over.
I'm scared what the future holds because i.have yet to find someone I relate to like I did him, but I have faith then when I am meant to meet my true love it will happen.
Bottomline is that even though your breakup is heartwrenching, it will get better. Who knows how long but you feel get over it or atleast accept it. I never thought I would because he was suppose to be my husbands, ut time helas. Just remember. Hugs to all that are suffering
I'm so happy you are in a better place..it gives me hope.
Great post!
I really have changed since this breakup. It was the most absolute worst thing I have ever had to go through. I had to realize to love myself. I never really did. I had to realize that my life was fine without a man in my life and that it was not going to kill me. I had to try to learn to live in the present instead of dwelling on the past and worrying about the future. That is something I have to say i am very proud of. I have worried about everything. Now, I just try to take it one day at a time and just know that a higher power has my best interest and will guide me to where I need to be. No sense in worrying about everything. It just takes happiness away from you.
like I said, I have yet to meet someone to want to be in a relationship with and it bothers me to wonder why it was so easy for my ex to find someone and not yet me, but then I think...I just haven't crossed paths yet. Hopefully soon, I really do believe in love and marriage still. I would like to find one person to spend the rest of my life with, but now. My life is mine to do whatever with. Its kind of nice.
It gets easier as time passes to look at it from an outside perspective and lose the hurt and hatred a bit. I can finally see that i really was with my best friend. I cant say anything bad about my ex. Our relationship just hit a place where we needed to go to the next level, but kids (who is our number 1 priority) caused an issue which prevented us from moving to that place. It is what it is and i treasure the time we had together.
Now time for the next chapter. Hope its bigger and better. :)