Rman... I feel the same way too. I come home to the home that we shared and I jump on DS...

Soo I pretty sure DS has helped because I cry less....

and BTW... Wheres your picture?

I told you I can't post my picture. It will just create too many women chasing me for a date...just kidding. DS is a place to vent.

I told you I can't post my picture. It will just create too many women chasing me for a date...just kidding. DS is a place to vent and listen.

Well, you can have mine right this sec -- somebody named "merightnow" keeps asking em to chat with him/her, I can't get rid of him/her, the request just keeps popping up!

Anne - I've got one of those too - f***ing stalker. No thanks!

Rman - don't knock being here - it does help and at some point, you will be ready to move on. You are still early in the process but please realize you can reach out at any time.

Lynne

This place is incredible...it provides me with such support. Im not alone here, people that dont even know me have genuine care and concern for me, they UNDERSTAND every single tiny emotion that Im feeling, not to even speak of the huge issues I face.

I also have no life right now, Im lonely and wish for company, BUT its a stage in my life that im working through and it will get better.

Well Rman, I for one know DS is helping me. I find it a wonderful place for advice and comfort from people who are (or have been) in my position.

If I compare my life to a hurricane, DS is the calm center of it.

Not much of a life here too. Just doing the same ol day in and day out. Maybe we need to organize a Maryland DS member's get together!

I have been by myself for over two years now, and still don't have a life, so don't feel bad if it has only been a few months. I did dip my toe in the shark infested dating waters a few months ago and am back into being by myself again..LOL. Don't rush it. You all are young and have plenty of time ahead of you for redefining who and where you want to be!

Time to create some fun dude!!!

Welcome to the club!
I have no life either! Worst part is, I didn't have a life while I was with stbx. I haven't had a life for years now, and I hate it!
I need to get out! Arg!

I was bored.

STBX made life miserable.

I am challenged now to keep my sanity and get through this divorce.

Looking for peace and contentment some day, if I can find it. I know now that I need something to keep my mind occupied.

DS is helping me think about many, many things. Most that I have not thought about.

Stick around Rman. You are not alone.

RR99

No life here either, but I am looking forward to Spring.

I will get out more then.

I wake up, eat, work out, eat, shit, shower, work, cook, shit, sleep...


Repeat

Ditto on the no life thing.
I am in a foreign country
No friends here (luckily I have friends on DS)
Family that don't give a shit about me because I am a divorced woman. (except my dad)
No emails or sms's from my 'real world' friends back home.
I don't even have a job.

DS is what I do ALL the time.
It helps because I can get things off my chest, but I also feel a need to wallow in misery with the only people who really know what I am going through.
It helps me connect with my emotions instead of ignoring them and hoping they go away.
That's my story!