Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I used to live for the weekend like everybody else. Time to sleep in or do things with friends. I hate the weekend now. The guy I was dating broke it off in April and is now seeing a girl that is 14 years younger than he is. He's 33 and she's 19. I know that they are spending every waking minute of the weekend together. He's sleeping with her Fri, Sat and possibly Sun and it's killing me. He works second shift so he goes home during the week. She has him partying like crazy and he even got arrested last weekend but thinks it's funny now and doesn't think he will get fined. I'm so depressed over this. I love him and know he is the guy meant for me. I just don't know who he is trying to be right now. Any words of wisdom or advice is greatly appreciated. I just don't want to start crying again today.
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I am kind of going thru the same thing, my ex has a girlfriend,our house is on the market so we still live together, he is gone every nite, I know he is with her. Just try to focus on you. Find something new to do, just get your mind off of the whole thing, even if it is just for a little while.Remember KEEP MOVING FOWARD!
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It pains me to hear you say that you know he is the guy meant for you. Look at what he just did. If that isn't a red flag waving in the wind. What reason did he give you? Not that it really matters, but if he broke up with you and started in with someone 14 yrs. younger. He doesn't sound like he is worth the time of day. I am sorry that you are hurting over this. But you need to think of you and what your needs are right now. You deserve so much better than that. And you know it.
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I know your pain. The man I loved for years left me the day before my birthday may 10 and said I was a sad liar and a looser. Im going through my third bought of cancer and Im feeling very sick and needy. I took care of him 100% he did not work he was stay at home with my kids. years..I have a handicap son and two girls they love him like me and called him dad. He left saying the money was no longer comming in for him and I was sorry and needy..I new he was the one, His friends even called and joked about how he spoke of my weakness. I have cancer I treated him like a king, Im a nure and make good money but I had to slow down cause Im so sick...Im just as lost and they way he left..My kids are so upset..All I can say is time, I have the same feeling you do and I wish I could take your pain. Im sorry Im so very sorry. Be strong in that you are beautiful and that we are strong and we will love again. Im here for you sending love and support and true frienship...Vickie
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