Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I really don't know what else to say other than that. I was supposed to graduate from college this semester - in fact graduation is tomorrow night, I have a dress I bought to wear to it hanging in my closet and my cap and gown . . .and it isn't going to happen because I quit going to classes because I couldn't handle the stress. I feel like I have totally lost control of my life. I have so much hurt and anger toward the man that I was once going to marry. What he did still keeps me up at night and makes me break down and cry at random times. And now I have to do yet another semester of school because of all of it. Oh and just to kick me when I am already down, my cell got shut off today because I couldn't afford to pay the bill so now I can't even call anyone when I need to talk.
Things have gotten worse lately than they had been. Some days I really just want to sleep all day, but get up and get dressed. So if anyone has any hugs or encouragement or suggestions on how to make it better I could really use it. I can't believe how bad my life has gotten all because I was unlucky enough to fall in love with the wrong man.
Things have gotten worse lately than they had been. Some days I really just want to sleep all day, but get up and get dressed. So if anyone has any hugs or encouragement or suggestions on how to make it better I could really use it. I can't believe how bad my life has gotten all because I was unlucky enough to fall in love with the wrong man.
I'm sorry you're struggling right now. If you are not taking anti-depressants, I suggest you talk to your doctor about starting on them. Sounds like you're in a major depressive episode right now.
Do some things nice for you. Don't sweat school--take care of yourself first. School will still be there and you will get finished.
Hugs!!!!
That being said. I don't think it is healthy to give so much power to a man that left. It doesn't make sense. He leaves you. You fall apart. I get that. But to go to pieces.
get help young one. You don't want these problems. You are young and have so much life ahead of you.
I have bee reading this book and it talks about the fact that most of us are asleep dreaming we are awake.
I extend my had and shake you gently and say.
get up pretty girl your life is waiting for you.
Matt
My thoughts and prayers are with you during these sad times sweetie....hang in there...tomorrow is a new day.....
i had my 1st appoinment with one on monday. you need someone from outside of the issue to help you start working through it.
Sleeping all day is not an option - don't let the depression get you that way. I've had days/weeks/months like that due to my own depression and when you come out of it into the sunshine you feel like a new person. Seek out the sun - TRULY - it can be very healing to simply feel the warmth of the sun and know that life will continue!
It sucks ass (and not in the good way either). Personally, if this kind of crap gives you character, I have enough character to be a feature in a Disney Flick.
Lynne