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So I had a date on Saturday. It went really well. I can tell that I made one hell of an impression on her and I can tell that she likes me (I don't take hints well and she made it very obvious).
We did kiss but nothing more.
She is very nice but I am not sure about her. She does talk a lot and she seems to be pretty upfront with things.
She does have some features on her that are cute. The odd thing is that I can't say for sure if I find her attractive or not though. I guess that is because that she is a little different from my normal type that I date. I tend to date athletic type women as I am very active and I do a lot of athletic things. This girl is trying to be more active and she is attempting to loose more weight.
Then again this was a first date so we will see where it goes from here.
The other odd thing was that I already got the speech that she isn't going to do some things until she has a ring on her finger and she isn't ready to have a ring on her finger for a while. I thought that was odd to hear on a first date and I had no intention of trying anything further on the date.
The nice thing is that I can tell that I am in a better mind set because I am definitely not in a hurry to get into a relationship but I don't mind moving that way eventually.
We did kiss but nothing more.
She is very nice but I am not sure about her. She does talk a lot and she seems to be pretty upfront with things.
She does have some features on her that are cute. The odd thing is that I can't say for sure if I find her attractive or not though. I guess that is because that she is a little different from my normal type that I date. I tend to date athletic type women as I am very active and I do a lot of athletic things. This girl is trying to be more active and she is attempting to loose more weight.
Then again this was a first date so we will see where it goes from here.
The other odd thing was that I already got the speech that she isn't going to do some things until she has a ring on her finger and she isn't ready to have a ring on her finger for a while. I thought that was odd to hear on a first date and I had no intention of trying anything further on the date.
The nice thing is that I can tell that I am in a better mind set because I am definitely not in a hurry to get into a relationship but I don't mind moving that way eventually.
Begin, I want some pamphlets. Do you discount if I take two dozen? Send them book rate. I won't need the for a while.
*grumbling*
1. I don't kiss on the first date
2. My culture doesn't allow me pre-marital sex
I never hear from them again.
Someone asked me yesterday if I was athletic. Currently....no but I was very heavy into martial arts for many years soo...I may be fluffy now but I can still kick some necessary ass if I had to.
Enjoy the moments as they may come. She might have been testing your reaction. The good ones call back.
Enjoy her if you do feel interest....if not, move on...
I told this guy I have been seeing for a few months now the same thing and he is still seeing me. Feelings change as you get to know each other, and maybe she will come around to it. The good girls are worth waiting for, the great guys are worth bending the rules for.
Lee
Lynne