Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Good Evening,
I am having one of the worst times of my life dealing with the loss of my girlfriend. As my previous post indicate, I am a total mess. My ex is dating one of my best friends of more than 25 years. He recently left his wife about 3 months ago and is on the prowl. He cheated on his wife for 11 years and will be no different with my girl. She is just too blind to see it. In the meantime, she still works for me and i am forced to see her each day. He was a former employee and still worked for me part time. I want to throw them both the hell out of my life but the truth is, I still love her very much. My family tells me... move on... its only one woman... I just can't explain my love for her. At work, she is cold and often nasty to me.... Very moody. It won't be long before I just snap and send her packing.
Like an idiot, I am holding on to a thread that she will see she made a huge mistake and want to work things out. I have loved her and her son for years. Its hard for me to imagine life without them. The pain is absolutely unbearable MOST of the time. I know she loves me but is afraid that some day I would leave her.... Go figure!
Please offer any advise as I just want to feel good again! Also, go easy on me because I am a wreck and really do miss her terrible. i cry all the time, can't sleep, have horrible thoughts af the two of them together...
Please help me.... Everyone on here has been awesome to me
Jim
I am having one of the worst times of my life dealing with the loss of my girlfriend. As my previous post indicate, I am a total mess. My ex is dating one of my best friends of more than 25 years. He recently left his wife about 3 months ago and is on the prowl. He cheated on his wife for 11 years and will be no different with my girl. She is just too blind to see it. In the meantime, she still works for me and i am forced to see her each day. He was a former employee and still worked for me part time. I want to throw them both the hell out of my life but the truth is, I still love her very much. My family tells me... move on... its only one woman... I just can't explain my love for her. At work, she is cold and often nasty to me.... Very moody. It won't be long before I just snap and send her packing.
Like an idiot, I am holding on to a thread that she will see she made a huge mistake and want to work things out. I have loved her and her son for years. Its hard for me to imagine life without them. The pain is absolutely unbearable MOST of the time. I know she loves me but is afraid that some day I would leave her.... Go figure!
Please offer any advise as I just want to feel good again! Also, go easy on me because I am a wreck and really do miss her terrible. i cry all the time, can't sleep, have horrible thoughts af the two of them together...
Please help me.... Everyone on here has been awesome to me
Jim
I am going to get through it and use this weekend to decide if I need to fire her at work as I know its making me miserable seeing her all day.
Any ideas on what i should do would help a lot...
Take Care and I am praying for all of us
Jim