Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday and I can't deal with it alone.
We've been together for almost four years and it hurts so much.
His love has been fading away for half a year without me knowing that until he felt nothing at all.
I thought he was just depressed and tried to help him but he just didn't want to see me.
I tried so hard that it made him feel uncomfortable as he was giving nothing in return.
So he decided that he wanted to end the relationship because he couldn't live like that anymore, pretending that everything is okay and seeing how much it hurt me.
And now I just can't believe that this is over.
Please help me
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You are 18 yrs. old and you said you been with him for 4 yrs. That made you 14 when you started with him. First of all, let me say, "first loves" usually do not last when they start as young as you are. Some do, but, they are few. As you get older, you will find that your idea of love will change. Priorities will change and many things in your life will change. I realize me saying this doesn't remove the current pain you feel but, know this, many of us have been through what you have just experienced, We know how much in love we felt at that time and how we felt our world would end but, it didn't.
Here is something to think about as well. I married my "first love" girl friend. I met her when she was about 12 or 13 yrs. old. Before our marriage ended, she tried to stab me on 3 different occasions, hit me with her car and finally, the last straw, she got a gun and tried to shoot me so, don't think "first loves" can't turn out bad, they can. Hang in there young lady. Things will get better for you and hopefully, you will find someone who will cherish and truly love you for who you are.