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I just read a statement that I truly believe to be true. I'd like to share it with all of you -
"Change has a considerable psychological impact on the human mind. To the fearful it is threatening because it means that things may get worse. To the hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exists to make things better." King Whitney Jr.
What I take from this statement is that even though things may change in your life, only YOU have the power to determine how these changes will affect you. Be hopeful and confident, rather than scared. Think positive!
"Change has a considerable psychological impact on the human mind. To the fearful it is threatening because it means that things may get worse. To the hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exists to make things better." King Whitney Jr.
What I take from this statement is that even though things may change in your life, only YOU have the power to determine how these changes will affect you. Be hopeful and confident, rather than scared. Think positive!
Lynne
Thanks for posting
Truly believing the truth with you in the bright sunlight of this high noon...
We are ALL the fearful, I believe. Some are so fearful they never process it, only submerge, which amounts to dangerous toxic-waste disposal, apt to explode at the most inconvenient moment... fyi - in moving on and/if considering dating, *avoid* that type.
Universal truths pop up all over the place, like dandelions! Everything lately is bringing me back to this stuff: the fear of reconstruction in the process of mourning... it's worth taking time, chewing the gristle, and getting the new foundation set properly as you go - it sucks (and is currently sucking for me) to have to jackhammer out a hastily laid one, and re-do. But no worries...
Anywho, here's my sharing:
http://www.tradebit.com/filedetail.php/4965669-mourning-theory
http://www.deathreference.com/Me-Nu/Mourning.html
Oh yes, I like it Rman. We can change our minds today with pride, if new info calls for it. Thanks for the positive...
Getting past the fear it takes Courage!!!
Thanks friend,