Believe what he says. And act accordingly.

you broke up for a reason. remember those reasons

Im going through the same problem that you're having. But if he says that you have his heart, then he shouldnt be going around and messing with other girls, thats not right! He should put you first if he still has feelings for you still. Yes, i do admit missing my ex sometimes too, but its the old him that i miss and not the new. He shouldnt be telling you that he misses you, hes the reason that your gone. Its tough knowing that someone you love is with another person, but they've moved on. I dont want to sound mean but you need to move on too because you shouldnt waste your time with someone who doesnt give you the attention that you need. It may seem impossible to do this, believe me.... i thought I wasnt going to be able too, but you need to focus on yourself now and do what makes you happy and not worry about him. Each day that comes, it gets better and better, trust me (:

I know your pain too well and the only advice I can give is do each day 1 day at a time and give yourself time to heal. I am going through the exact same thing right now, he tells me lies to get me in bed....but we must think of our self-esteem and what the real problem is most likely is we want to be loved but these are not the right guys to love us. Once we heal (it can take a long time) and begin to live again, maybe God will send the man meant to really love us. That is lust not love. We have to stay strong!

Men! All they want is sex. Well, the real men anyway.

Hey, look on the bright side. At least he told you right? The real bad breakups are like.... when he didn't break up with you and he was doing your best friend in your bed while you were doing his laundry.

See? Not so bad.

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"DO NOT FEED THE TROLLS" DNFTT!!!

radrm, thats not nice. Im always positive and supportive. I never attack anyone and my messages are always the plain truth.

You can and will move on. It is hard, it sucks and many days you feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. Just remember, no matter what he says, or how much it impacts you, his decision has nothing to do with you,

Talk to your Mom, sister or brother. Hang with friends, find new interests, give yourself time to heal.

Post often, most of the folks here like to listen, support and offer positive advice. (The few that don't can be ignored. click ignore under their name.)

You should be angry. He's jerking you around and stringing you along. Why are you in such denial??? He's treating you disrespectfully and has no concern for your feelings. Dump him. For good. If you take him back, you just give him the green light to continue.

He hasn't yet learned that real love is NOT simply a feeling. It is HARD WORK. He is basically telling you, "I have a feeling in my heart for you but I don't want to have to do any WORK." He also isn't showing any measure of respect to the people he is sleeping with. You really should pity him. But I will say: I at least give him credit for being honest and forthcoming with the fact that he wants to sleep with others. Why is sex so DAMN important nowadays!!! God, I'm sick of it!! It disgusts me to think of some of the valuable and worthwhile things that people have simply walked away from for the sake of momentary pleasure!! It is damn sickening!! Enough already!!