Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband cheated on me with a mutual coworker. He was only seeing her for 2 weeks and wanted a divorce and moved out. That fast. We all worked for the same company so we all knew each other about 5yrs. I had a breakdown, left the state to try to move on, lost my beautiful career, came back home. It's been 2 1/2 years and at least I'm not at the bottom of a bottle anymore. Our divorce was final in March and he married her in May of this year. That fast. We were together 10yrs but he was 11 yrs younger than me.I rarely cry anymore and I stopped using this site for almost a year. The problem is when I sleep I dream that we are together so that when I wake up for a split second I felt the "nightmare" was all a dream but then I see I'm alone and the house is emplty & I come back to reality. Or I dream that he runs to me and begs for forgiveness and says he made such a mistake. It seems so real that when I wake up it justs ruins my whole day. I have to say a prayer now every night to God to beg him not to let me dream of him. I hate my dreams. I just wanted to write this down for ppl to see because I recently got back on here and see new members and I know I'm not alone and I hope reading this helps someone as it helped me "a little" in writing it.
Write more about yourself Peacemaker, do a journal, tell us more about yourself, post a picture, write it down! It really does help. You never know where this road could lead to and maybe some great friends too.
Take Care
i managed to fall asleep. i had a very vivid dream of her and i in complete happiness. it was a great feeling from what i remember.. i didnt want it to end..
..then i woke up in the morning, in an empty bed. ..that feeling of dread still in the air. i wish i could go back to that dream.
..i CAN relate to the feeling that dreams bring. they do haunt you at times. i hope it gets esier for you.
That emotion is what helps analyze the dream. And most likely it has nothing to do with you being married. - let me know that emotion you feel when you wake up. An overview would be that you are dreaming of something you are comfortable with.
anyways i requested u as a friend take care
it may be a moving forward with change dream, but I have to ask a friend who does this more than I do. I'll let you know what she says
Lynne