Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi there, its my first post on this site . I am a 20 year old boy . I am a very introvert person who would never share his secrets to anyone but now it feels so hard and i can't bear the pain.
I fell in love with a girl 2 years back online. Well we dated for a couple of month and then i proposed her. She said she would love to be my wife . So we secretly made lots of plans about how we would live, where we would go for vacation , what would be the name of our kid etc,...
I was so serious with this relationship that i already bought engagement ring for her, wedding ring, wedding dress and many other gifts and sent her. But around 4 months back , she sent me an email saying its over between us and i must forget her. I thought she was just teasing me but then i was wrong. She really meant her words and we broke up. All my dreams were shattered. She said that i was her toy and she was just using me. I never thought a girl would use me like this. But still i cannot forget her. It seems as if a part of me has remain with her. i hide myself from the outside world and lead a more introvert life. I began writing sad poems. Gradually i began self harm and i even made a suicide attempt. Unfortunately, i survived. Still today, i cannot move on and life seems so difficult. I often find myself crying alone in the room. Is this normal.Should i accept this as my life...
I fell in love with a girl 2 years back online. Well we dated for a couple of month and then i proposed her. She said she would love to be my wife . So we secretly made lots of plans about how we would live, where we would go for vacation , what would be the name of our kid etc,...
I was so serious with this relationship that i already bought engagement ring for her, wedding ring, wedding dress and many other gifts and sent her. But around 4 months back , she sent me an email saying its over between us and i must forget her. I thought she was just teasing me but then i was wrong. She really meant her words and we broke up. All my dreams were shattered. She said that i was her toy and she was just using me. I never thought a girl would use me like this. But still i cannot forget her. It seems as if a part of me has remain with her. i hide myself from the outside world and lead a more introvert life. I began writing sad poems. Gradually i began self harm and i even made a suicide attempt. Unfortunately, i survived. Still today, i cannot move on and life seems so difficult. I often find myself crying alone in the room. Is this normal.Should i accept this as my life...
You met someone, risked it and it didn't work out. The great thing about the world is you will meet someone else if you allow yourself. There are a million women out there, they aren't all like that internet girl.
I promise.