Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Anyone eles get this feeling sometimes?
You know what I dream about? The last thing I think of before closing my eye's and going to sleep?
Being with you, even though I do not even know who, "you" are. "you" are the one that makes me feel like i've never felt before, someone I want to hold, and cuddle, and kiss, and love, center my whole life around. "you" are the one I want to treat like a princess and make you feel like the prettiest girl on earth. "you" are the one I want to see every night before I sleep, and hold throughout the night. "you" are the one I want to see every morning. "You" are the one I want to make breakfast in bed for, and tell you I love you every morning. I write nameless song's for "you". I want to make "you" so happy, and make you smile, and laugh..
I know one day you'll come into my life and I will be able to do all of thoes things.
Untill then, I can dream.
You know what I dream about? The last thing I think of before closing my eye's and going to sleep?
Being with you, even though I do not even know who, "you" are. "you" are the one that makes me feel like i've never felt before, someone I want to hold, and cuddle, and kiss, and love, center my whole life around. "you" are the one I want to treat like a princess and make you feel like the prettiest girl on earth. "you" are the one I want to see every night before I sleep, and hold throughout the night. "you" are the one I want to see every morning. "You" are the one I want to make breakfast in bed for, and tell you I love you every morning. I write nameless song's for "you". I want to make "you" so happy, and make you smile, and laugh..
I know one day you'll come into my life and I will be able to do all of thoes things.
Untill then, I can dream.
I k now for me I can't make my life about someone else, about making someone else happy, about making someone else laugh, about loving someone and holding them in my arms. That can't be the center of my world. It took some time for me to get this new perspective once I realized what I was doing. I didn't want to leave the bitter sweet feelings of that yearning. I still feel it sometimes, but I know it's not healthy and it comes from a place of an unhappy childhood.
This might not make sense right now, because it didn't for me for a long time after hearing it, but I encourage you to look within yourself with the help of therapy or books for ways to hold yourself, make yourself feel like the most handsome prince in the world, make yourself breakfast in bed, tell yourself that you love yourself every morning and every night before going to bed.
I know, it sounds like a crock of shit...but take some time to really think about how you feel about yourself and why you might not feel like you love yourself as much as you want to love someone else.
Know you are not alone....I;m sure we have all been in your shoes at one time or another.
Godspeed.
Lynne