Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Tiny89 11/12/2016

But I'm struggling again. I keep seeing him and his friends (because they are friends with some of my friends too) on social media out having fun. It's like I never existed. Like he's not mourning the loss of the relationship we shared for so long. I'm sitting here on a chat board trying to heal and he's out having the time of his damn life. Meanwhile the only comfort I have found is a pint of ben & jerry's. I mean this is crazy, I'm here questioning was I a good girlfriend and did I mean anything at all to him? Am I really worth giving up because he wants a social life? Ugh I'm sorry guys, I think I just needed to vent.

Ounnah 11/12/2016

Let it all out! Cry, yell or eat all your feelings away. There's no shame in feeling what you're feeling now, focus on yourself. It doesn't matter what he's doing now, or how he's feeling.
You aren't going to be moping around forever, your just have to go through the stages of grief.
You aren't alone!

G-Girl 11/12/2016

Social media is hardly indicative of someone's true life. So you can take some comfort in that. Try to keep the focus on you. I know it's better said than done.

drgnlvr 11/12/2016

Vent away Tiny! I agree with Ounnah. No shame and you have every right to vent. I had to unfriend my ex for similar reasons. I don't want to see her stuff 1-2 weeks after stuff with us went down the tubes.
Just because he is doing that doesn't make you bad, maybe look at the other side of the coin vs questioning yourself.
For a lighter note, what flavor Ben & Jerry's? Yum! My favorite is "everything but the"!

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